Please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss of your Son, and your Brother. It is so hard to loose a family member especially at the young age of 33. Please remember that we are promised by Jesus that we will have an opportunity to see our loved ones again here on earth. John 5:28+29 gives us such a wonderful hope, please read it for yourself or go to jw.org for more information or take advantage of the on line bible study.Please be encouraged by these things as I was when I lost my Dad.